Coffee and Cannonballs !!

I woke up this morning with a huge feeling of guilt and failure resting on my shoulders. My eyes still feel like they are sporting 10lb weights underneath them, and the To Do list in my head keeps growing. Every room I have walked past or into holds so many unfinished projects that I had begun with every intention in the world to finish before the end of nap time. I hate clutter, but it's absolutely everywhere. Sure, I wipe down toilets every day, clean the kitchen every night (the dog takes care of the floor, ha) and do my best to make sure every one has clean underwear and clothes for the next day, but I always want to do more. Almost daily, I sit down at the end of the day thinking "I know I have been busy all day, but it looks like I have not done one thing!". I get no pressure at all from The Cajun in regards to house work or my role in raising our ninjas. He helps out when he can, and walks away when I start bashing myself for not getting everything done in a day. S...